About the wedding before this world

In just the past eleven golden week, for the married couple golden week, this year is no exception with the cars in the motorcade, gun salute sounded, for some single or married people & ldquo; red Bomb & rdquo; turns.

Get together, and now has become a phenomenon, people even said: & ldquo; the National Day holiday, if you choose is not stuck on the highway, it will go on a & lsquo; red fine & rsquo; on the way. ” red ticket.

How do we get married this time

Beijing village cadres spend 160 million yuan for his son even put the three days of the feast, Qingdao 500 million yuan in cash dowry, Sichuan boy spend 20 million yuan rent a helicopter to marry the bride & hellip; & hellip; the National Day holiday, around the keywords & ldquo; Marriage & rdquo; Mengliao emerge in endlessly.

Mountain bike wedding, rock climbing, diving wedding, the wedding ceremony … … in the current 90 after becoming a wedding, a variety of personality, a variety of non mainstream, all kinds of dazzling. What kind of is the wedding that makes our life unforgettable?

Think about the past, how did they get married:
Ancient & mdash; Chinese traditional marriage etiquette is very complicated, since the Zhou Dynasty, & ldquo; nacai, ask, Najib, satisfied that the sign, please, wedding & rdquo; six programs, called & ldquo; six rites & rdquo; and the later evolution please Geng, blind date, engagement, report period, disc, dowry, marry, marry, hilus.

With the introduction of Western thought in China, some cities and ports appear western wedding.

After the founding of new China, & mdash; the marriage pop & ldquo; minimalism & rdquo; common is a few pounds of candy, invited the leadership of the witnesses, new bow, the evening will be two bed quilt to a bed, marriage even formed.

Marriage must be simple and simple. A washbasin and a thermos bottle is enough. Some of the more simple furniture, such as a wooden cabinet.

The custom of bride price and dowry send Xing in 1970s. In the countryside, the betrothal gifts including woolen coat, cloth, shoes and watches, city people calls & ldquo; three turn rang & rdquo; & mdash; bicycles, sewing machines, watches, semiconductor radio, in the northern region is exquisite to & ldquo; 32 legs & rdquo. & ldquo; 48 legs & rdquo; that is, a furniture leg add up to enough to 32 or 48 the number.

Now the young people can get married

Many young people said, held a lavish wedding, more is to give his parents support face of &rdquo “. Is preparing for the wedding of Chengdu white-collar Zhang Wenxun to reporters calculations, 40 banquet tables, average table 2000 yuan, drinks the tea smoke not less than 30000 yuan, pat marriage gauze, find a wedding company, a wedding run down at least 15 million yuan. This let a monthly salary of less than 20000 yuan, but also under the mortgage, car loan pressure of small husband and wife deeply “ the pressure of the mountain big ” but also can only bite the bullet.

There is a greater pressure on the wedding in addition to the beauty of the young people, which also stems from some traditional ideas. Many young people said, a wedding to do down, and tired and trouble, more important is to spend huge. Even some of the excesses.

“ marriage is only a solemn starting point of marriage, and can not determine whether the marriage life happiness or not. Wedding first of all to act according to their own economic capacity, and secondly to make ends meet, don't want to die to face purgatory, more do comparisons with others to follow suit. ” Xia Xueluan, a professor of sociology at Peking University.

Feudal habits is not worth to initiate

    the traditional custom of bride price for many people has become a burden not acceptable.

Why is it necessary to send the bride price? Professor, said the feudal society has a question, think that the daughter of a hard to raise, but into a different family. The woman to the man's house, equivalent to a more labor. This requires the man to pay the woman's family must amount of cost, in fact, like “ sell daughter ”. Song of the future, “ sell daughter ” the appearance of more and more popular. Now wedding, frequently tens or even hundreds of thousands of millions of & ldquo; betrothal gifts & rdquo; money, in fact, originated in the & ldquo; sells his daughter & rdquo; that is, the feudal habits, not worth initiated.

In the ancient wedding, relatives and friends are also sent to “ part of the money ”? The professor said, since the Zhou Dynasty, there are elements of money “ ”, but more is to send things. Since when, wedding methods have begun to revive? Professor says, in last century 80 time metaphase, gradually by odds and ends to money, between friends and relatives to the new ten dollars and twenty as elements of money, the man to the woman thousand dollars or even hundreds of dollars as a gift. The real wedding comparisons of the wind is in the new century since more than ten years.